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Unconditional love is not born with motherhood.
It doesn’t appear magically when you become a parent.
It’s built — through self-awareness, moral clarity, and the courage to stay soft, even when it’s hard.
Every. Single. Time.

And yet, society says parents are the only ones who love unconditionally.

This myth of unconditional parental love is one many carry like a wound.

A myth.

A comforting one.

A dangerous one.

A myth that has allowed generations of parents to offer love full of expectations, judgment, silence — and still call it pure.

But here’s the truth:

Unconditional love is not natural.

It’s intentional.

A discipline.

It must be practiced, examined, challenged, and updated.

And that is exactly where most parents — even kind, good, “open-minded” ones — fail.

Because instead of saying:

“What are you learning from this love?”
they ask:
“Why aren’t you listening to me?”

Most parents don’t accept their kids — when they’re gay, or love outside caste, or love deeply.

Yet society still calls that love unconditional.

That sentence?

It is the dismantling of the myth of unconditional parental love that so many carry like a wound.

Because unless you understand yourself — and correct yourself when time asks — you cannot give unconditional love.

And that’s the line. That’s the truth.

Because so many parents:

• Never heal their own trauma
• Never challenge their beliefs
• Never question their emotional patterns
• And still demand absolute loyalty from their children

That is not love.

That is emotional inheritance without accountability.

So here’s the radical truth:

True unconditional love is whether you have the moral clarity to look inward, confront your own discomfort, and choose what is right — not what is easy, not what is familiar, but what is just.

And most people?
Aren’t emotionally grown enough to do that — even if they’re old enough to be parents.

Unconditional love is not ever-present.
It is not guaranteed.
It is not a default.

It is a conscious act.
A discipline.
A choice.

Built and rebuilt — in the moments when it’s hardest to offer.
Especially then.